Somatic Mindfulness・Internal Family System Therapy・Couples Counseling
Be held in a field of love
seeing clients in person in Oakland, California and online
Multicultural Sensitive, LGBTQ+ friendly, Poly Friendly, Sex Positive, Kink Positive, Neurodiversity Honoring
inner resourcing for courageous humans who are ready to transform old patterns & unlock new levels of equnimity & intimacy their life and relationships
If you’re like many of the people I work with, even though you’ve done some personal development and you’ve achieved beautiful things, you are exhausted from doing all this work.
You experience overwhelm and confusion with where you are vs where you want to be.
Maybe you doubt you’ll ever create the vision of health, happiness and fulfillment that you dream of.
You don’t believe that you have to sacrifice one area of your life for another, but it seems impossible.
I feel you. I’ve been there. And I know how hard it could be.
I've personally been through many transformations and crossroads in life, and I've supported countless individuals and couples creating and building towards their own definition of wellbeing.
What is blocking your from more love and aliveness?
You don’t need to push yourself harder.
You need more inner resource so it’s easier for you to do hard things.
That’s why I offer services to help you unblock what’s in your way of staying present and graceful with what life has in store for you.
We don’t do traditional talk therapy that’s used as a crutch here.
Instead, we have real talks on what is actually happening for you.
We slow down to listen to the unspoken voices in your body that carry wisdom and
equip you with practical tools so that you can be the lover, leader, parent, creator, visionary, cycle-breaker, trailblazer you’ve always desired to be.
You might surprise yourself.
Ready to for your breakthrough? Start here with a complimentary 30 min call with me to see if we are a good fit.
Hey there, I am Xuel. I am a Psychotherapist-Healer, Intuitive Guide, Facilitator, Writer and More.
My own healing journey led me to many roads less taken, through which I found balance to exist as a complex human in this strange modern world. That’s why as a therapist, I offer my skills to help you discover what you want and need — especially from parts that are often ignored, judged or different from conventional opinions.
You are not a normal human being and I am not your normal therapist. The support I offer my clients is alchemical – I walk alongside with a light as you integrate fragmented pieces of self so that you feel safe to move through the darkest places. I also get real with you. I validate and help you actually practice what you already know that has not been right in your body.
FUN FACT: My name "Xuel" is pronounced as "sh-well". I gave myself this name based on my Bazi, a Chinese astrological divination system.
Counseling Services
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Individual Therapy
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Couples Counseling
Upcoming events
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April 4 Introduction to Ancestral Work for Qing Ming Fesitval (Online)
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April 14 Deepening Ancestral Connections (Online)
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April 21 Ancestral Blessings and Grief in person Ceremony (Oakland)
My Specialities
Internal Family System
level 2 trained - “the most effective psychotherapy for developmental trauma"
Cross-Cultural/Queer/ Poly/Non-traditional Couples
emotional intelligence and communication skills-building containers for courageous lovers
Thriving with Neurodiversity
understand your difference,
build emotional resilience, and embrace your unique strength
Life Force Energy, Sexuality & Shame
connect to your needs, desires and creative life energy through letting go of pain and limiting beliefs stored in your body
Spiritual & Psychedelic Integration
energy awareness & healing and support for spiritual / psychedelic/ transpersonal experiences
Somatic Mindfulness (via Tamura Method)
body-based therapeutic inquiry to drop into your sense awareness, move stuck energy and receive somatic wisdom
Intergenerational & Ancestral Healing for Asians
heal generational trauma and realign your connection to wise and kind ancestral support
Human Design Readings & Practices
accomplish more with less by recognizing your gifts and engaging your Human Design strategy
Invest in Inner Foundations of well-being.
Embodied Awareness
Imagine being able to recognize and dialogue with the signal of your body so that you become a sovereign Queen / King who is in charge of your health, emotions, energy, beliefs and boundaries.
Grounded Being
Imagine no longer being burdened by your self-doubts and shame. Instead, you are centered in your authenticity and truth in the way you speak, touch, listen, move and respond.
Aligned Relating
Imagine being unfazed by other people's judgements and emotions, connected to your ability to love no matter the circumstances which allows you have ease in giving and receiving, communicating and decision-making, loving and being loved.
Ready to start?
I offer 30 min complimentary consultation call for my counseling services during which we can see if I am a good fit for what you need.
